After a series of "here-there-everywhere-days," I decided not to expect much from myself once Monday came. Yet, by the end of the day, I realized I accomplished more than I do on most days when I have a to-do list.

• Our two Labrador Retrievers received grooming, baths, and pedicures. I also sanitized their bedding.

• My youngest joined me in washing the bathroom lampshades.

• We vacuumed under and behind the furniture in my room.

• I changed the sheets on the bed.

• I cleaned the windows and ventilated the room.

• Everyone worked hard on their school work because I was too focused (or distracted?) to keep them focused (or distracted?). Anyway, everyone worked hard.

Then we had lunch.

• My middle one, my youngest, and I went for a walk to the coffee shop to finish English class and to collect subject matter for nature drawing.

• I made meatloaf and mashed potatoes for dinner while the middle one and the youngest listened to a book-on-tape.

• My oldest cleaned the bathroom.

• I scrubbed down the kitchen while dinner cooked.

• I enjoyed reading a book at the hair salon.

• My husband and I watched our Monday shows together after the kids went to bed.

I have concluded my high expectations for myself and others often yield fewer results and little satisfaction. Added to my morning to-do list--at least for Mondays--is "nothing." At the end of the day, it is much more satisfying to write a done-did list.